PARANOID? More like alert. If I was paranoid, I would have been a prisoner in my own home and never have went out and did my business. I am always in condition yellow (relaxed but still aware of my surroundings) when I am out of the house. And that is the recommended state of awareness everyone should have when out in public and the mindset of most self-defense minded people. what good is your skills, whether it be unarmed combat or with a gun, if you don't have the proper mindset and killer instinct? I have been in some parts of the world, seen a lot of things, and my awareness have saved me a few times. Again, this is not my idea and it was first emphasized by the late Colonel Jeff Cooper, the father of modern American gunfighting or pistolcraft. Like for example, my tour group was in Seville (notorious for its pickpocketing), Spain out in town and got approached by a bunch of palmreaders. I, trusting my intuitions, went to the other sidewalk to avoid them. The rest of them, walked past them and some got their palms read. And, guess what, each one of them got pickpocketed and I was the only one who was not. You see, you can never be too alert. By the way, have you ever traveled outside of the UK? If not, you will never realize how some parts of the world have their own idiosyncracies.